I'm 100% sure you've tried forming a habit at some point and failed. It’s natural, but… do you know why you failed? Was it a lack of willpower or because you lost motivation?
Here’s the reason why. If you want to build a habit, the key isn’t to start with a change so small it’s impossible to fail. Wait, wait. Are you referring to the book Atomic Habits? No. I’m talking about the ‘better-than-nothing’ principle.
In other words, instead of big changes, start with ridiculously small actions. For example, if you want to read more, start with just one page a day. If you want to meditate, do it for one minute. These minimal actions are easy to repeat and give you the motivation and momentum to keep going.
And you might ask: How am I going to achieve true transformation if I start by thinking small? Because small daily actions build confidence and motivation for bigger changes.
Here’s how to build a lasting habit:
Make the habit so small that you can’t fail.
Prioritize daily repetition over effort.
Don’t increase the time or difficulty until the minimal action becomes automatic.
Habits aren’t built with big, sporadic efforts but with small, consistent actions.